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: Obaro discusses the "rarity" of finding and keeping close Black female friends, especially when career and life choices lead one into environments where they are "the only one."

is an editor and author known for her work at BuzzFeed News and her debut novel, Dele Weds Destiny (2022). Her writing frequently centers on the complexities of Nigerian-American identity, female friendship, and the dynamics of modern relationships. Tomi Obaro Freundin Bleibst Du Immer rar

The essay is a deeply personal exploration of and the unique challenges of maintaining those bonds while navigating predominantly white spaces. : Obaro discusses the "rarity" of finding and

: The title refers to the precious and often scarce nature of these relationships, which serve as essential support systems and mirrors for one's identity. Tomi Obaro Freundin Bleibst Du Immer rar