In many traditions, the divine act of creation is an act of love. Similarly, when we choose to love, we are "creating" a relationship daily. We are not finding a finished product; we are building a sanctuary through repeated, intentional actions. The Mechanics of the Choice
Love as a choice is not a cold or clinical approach; it is the most romantic gesture possible. It says to the other person: "My commitment to you is more powerful than my changing moods or the challenges of the world." It is a sophisticated, high-level way of living that mirrors the enduring nature of the divine.
We often stop "seeing" our partners, replacing them with our frustrations. Choosing love means intentionally looking for their virtues and expressing gratitude for them. In many traditions, the divine act of creation
If love were merely a feeling, it would be impossible to promise it "until death do us part." You cannot logically promise to feel a certain way in thirty years, but you can promise to act a certain way. Viewing love as a choice elevates it from a chemical reaction to an act of the will. The "God’s Sophistication" Perspective
Just as spiritual faith is tested in moments of silence, love is tested in moments of friction. Choosing to love when your partner is "unlovable" is the highest expression of this sophistication. The Mechanics of the Choice Love as a
When we believe love is a choice, we become "love-creators." We understand that the "dry seasons" are a natural part of the cycle. Instead of asking, "Do I still feel in love?" we ask, "How can I best love my partner today?" This shifts the power back into our hands, providing a stable foundation that can weather any storm.
How does one "choose" love when the feeling isn't present? It involves several daily disciplines: Choosing love means intentionally looking for their virtues
From a spiritual lens, love is often defined by —a Greek term for unconditional, selfless love. This isn't a love based on the worthiness of the recipient, but on the character of the giver.