The - Connected Child: Bring Hope And Healing To ...

is a foundational guide for parents and caregivers raising "children from hard places"—those who have experienced early trauma, neglect, or abuse. Written by Dr. Karyn Purvis and Dr. David Cross, the book introduces the Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) model, which shifts the focus from controlling behavior to building deep, healing connections. Core Philosophy: Connection Over Correction

The central tenet of the book is that connection must precede correction. Traditional discipline, such as time-outs or punishments, often fails with traumatized children because it triggers their survival-based "fear response". Instead, the authors advocate for a holistic approach that sees the child's behavior as a symptom of underlying needs rather than simple defiance. The Three Pillars of TBRI The Connected Child: Bring hope and healing to ...

The TBRI model outlined in the book is built on three guiding principles: is a foundational guide for parents and caregivers