Monica - Don't Take It Personal (just One Of Dem Days) (official Video) ✨

: Filmed on top of a Checkers drive-thru in College Park, but was disliked by the team.

: Deemed "inappropriate" because Monica changed her hair from a black bob to a blonde pixie cut shortly after filming, which conflicted with already-shot promotional materials. : Filmed on top of a Checkers drive-thru

: The final version was the third attempt at a music video for the song. : The song explores themes of needing personal

: The song explores themes of needing personal space, emotional independence, and navigating mood swings within a relationship without it being a reflection of a lack of love. : The video was nominated for Best R&B/Urban

: While fans often speculated the song was about her period, Monica clarified in 2018 that it was simply about having "a bad day," noting she was only 12 when she recorded it. Decades later, the song's title inspired the 2025 comedy film One Of Them Days .

: The video was nominated for Best R&B/Urban Clip and Best New R&B/Urban Artist Clip at the 1995 Billboard Music Video Awards. Song Composition & Themes

: Directed by Rich Murray , the video is primarily shot in black-and-white. It features Monica in various New York City locations, including shots of her standing by a window and singing while men look up at her.